A bride and groom found a beautifully sentimental way to honor their "village" on their wedding day. While Alivia Zaubi and now-husband John Pisani were planning their nuptials last year, it occurred ...

She explained that her cousin and his wife flouted the event's no-alcohol policy and snuck in bottles during the reception, causing a bit of a scene "While I was initially happy they made the effort ...

"[As we wrote], we would laugh, we would cry, and we learned a lot about some of the guests," bride Alivia Zaubi tells PEOPLE ...

"While I was initially happy they made the effort to attend, after what they did I can't find it in myself to thank them for anything," the Redditor wrote A new bride is grappling with an etiquette ...